Generations

Though astrology’s benefits are well-known for self-understanding and couple counseling, using astrological insights to understand a child’s unique attributes and to consider how a parent might better relate to and encourage their child’s strengths is not commonly known.

There’s an old adage that “the apple never falls far from the tree,” which is used to explain a trait (often a failing) as having been passed from one generation to another. “He’s a chip of the old block.”  “Like mother, like daughter.” All these sayings seem to indicate that our children are just miniature version of ourselves or just like us.  It’s true that physical features, even speaking tone, may prove this point, but is it true of general character and personality?

Astrological research indicates that when looking at all the charts of one family, there does indeed seem to be similar or repeat aspects that link them, like a family issue or theme. However, it is also true that one member of the family is often disconnected (different) from all the others, proving that no broad assumptions can be made.

I have pondered how my life would be different had my parents understood my eccentric nature, my need for creative stimulation and many friends. Rather than my mother trying to teach me to fear strangers (as she does), she might realize that my nature was more inclined to discovery and enjoyment of different people, not fear of them.

I thoroughly enjoy doing astrological consultations of children’s charts for parents. My approach is to describe the “opening rose bud” without limiting or defining the child who has yet to fully bloom. Yet, our basic nature is apparent early on.  Without limiting potential, much can be said to encourage parents to appreciate the unique begin in their care.

Recently, I chuckled inside as I sat reading the chart of a 9 month old Gemini boy for his mother. The boy was crawling all over the room, pulling himself up to look at something, and just as quickly crouching back down to discover the next piece of furniture.  His natural Geminian curiosity was fully apparent!  This mother came to me with a sincere desire to understand her son in order to promote his greatest development into the unique being he is. How truly wise she is!

I have a session coming up with a mother and her 10 year old daughter.  One of the reasons given for the reading is to better understanding of parent/child differences and explore possibilities for better communication.  Mother and daughter will be coming together. What at treat! The 10-year old with be able to interact with the process and feel validated for who she is!

Astrology can open a world of insight for parents to know just how their issues are being repeated in their child’s life.  It could actually help find resolution and create new possibilities.  It is also helpful to discover where the differences simply need to be honored.  How could the whole family benefit if the misunderstood family member finds greater self-acceptance through an early, sensitive look at their potential as revealed in the astrology chart?

Do you know someone who could benefit from a greater understanding of their child’s unique character and potential as well as knowing how they fit into the family system?  I would love to help.