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A Quote of Note
To the extent we can live without demanding or expecting (except from
ourselves), so can we be free from disillusionment and disappointment.
To expect something from another because it's right is to court
unhappiness. Others can and will only give what they are able, not what
you desire they give. When you cease placing conditions on your love you
have taken a giant step toward learning to love.
~Leo Buscaglia
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Expectations vs. Intentions
The success of "The Secret" has exposed the truth that what we
focus on creates our reality. Interest in consciously creating
our reality or what might be thought of as "being conscious
when interacting with reality" is an important step toward
living a life of joy and fulfillment. Naturally, we need to
remember we co-create our existence in partnership with our
Source and are not the origin of our life.
But let's think about just what sort of lens we are looking
through when we focus on our life? Is that lens created by our
expectations or intentions? What is the difference?
Expectation in my view is what we set up when we create a
picture in our mind of what we want. That picture is usually
very detailed and specific. Once created, it remains as the
template against which we measure anything that appears.
For several years while single, I held a picture of the
partner I expected to find. The trouble was my picture was so
ideal, so perfect that no one ever matched it. My expectations
actually prevented me from finding a mate because I was so
hung up on the details (looks, status, etc).
Expectations have a quality of "I want this" and involve
anticipation of fulfillment from a rather self-centered, needy
perspective.
On the other hand, intentions arise out of an inner desire or
plan for our life that involves some sort of action. There is
willingness to take action to create appropriate environment
out of which what we desire can arise.
For example, when a farmer intends to have a plentiful harvest
of crops, he takes the action of planting seeds in spring and
weeding regularly through the summer to create the conditions
for the fall harvest. If he just sat on his porch picturing in
his mind that way he expects the field to look in the fall,
there would be nothing to harvest.
What I am describing is the difference between wishful
thinking and co-creating with our Source. Perhaps that is what
is behind the saying, "God helps those who help themselves."
The problem of trying to manifest through expectations is that
it leaves no room for something better.
Going back to my example of having expectations of what my
partner would be like, I can tell you that my beloved husband
Chuck didn't show up until I let go of knowing exactly what
was best for me. He has many of the qualities I was seeking
but there were many other qualities that I hadn't even
factored in and he came in a quite different package that I
had "expected."
Basically, when we seek to create the future by definite
expectations, we are doomed to disappointment either by not
finding anything that could possible measure up or by finding
a match and discovering later it wasn't quite the right thing.
We can best create possibilities for a desired future by
holding an intention of what we would like that includes: 1) a
willingness to do all that we can to create the environment
for our desire to appear and 2) an openness to accept our
intention or something better,
leaving room for the Universe to gift us beyond our
imagination.
Now that's creating through intention in harmony with the
Divine!
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Astrological Events
NOTE: These days contain strong
energies that influence everyone to a greater or lesser degree.
Consult a professional astrologer for more detailed and personal
information.
Tue June 3, 3:25 PM ET - NEW MOON at
14 Gemini
In Gemini, we consider the flow of information received and
expressed, but since Gemini's ruler Mercury is currently
retrograde, we need to avoid information overload. Venus is tight
to this lunation also which encourages us to use our intuition as
well as our intellect and to trust synchronicities as well as
facts. It is a particularly fruitful time to share our thoughts
and feelings with those we care about. But since retrograde
Mercury squares Uranus, you would do well to question your
customary ways of thinking and open to some very new information.
If you wish upon the New Moon (within 3 days before or after),
you have the possibility of fulfillment by the time of the Full
Moon. Gemini New Moon wishes relate to:
motion/activity, learning, communication skills, logic/cleverness,
social ease, positive daily interactions and calming mental
anxiety.
Sat June 7 - Sun in Gemini conjoins Mercury, Mercury
conjoins Venus
A mentally active day, you may feel like staying busy by
socializing or taking a day trip. Mercury with Venus may incline
your form of speech and writing to be more artistic and more
pleasant to others. Your friends just might provide some new
insights.
Mon June 9 - Sun in Gemini conjoins Venus
Your personal popularity could be increased bringing forth a new
relationship,
especially if you have personal planets near 19 Gemini.
Thu June 12 - Venus in Gemini squares Uranus in Pisces
Today you could find you prefer to be on your own rather than have
to accommodate others.
Fri June 13 - Sun in Gemini squares Uranus in Pisces,
Venus in Gemini trines Neptune in Aquarius, and Pluto retrogrades
back into Sagittarius
The Sun-Uranus connection suggests you should expect the
unexpected and with Venus and Neptune meeting the same day, it
could be love and romance that are unexpected. Pluto's tiptoe back
into Sag could return a degree of optimism and expansion in the
financial markets and elsewhere, but don't be fooled. This is the
last phase of the Sag optimism before we re-enter the cold facts
of Capricorn such as we saw when Pluto first entered Capricorn in
late January.
Sat June 14 - Sun in Gemini trines Neptune in Aquarius
Continuing with the theme of love and romance from yesterday, you
could find idealism flavorings the whole weekend. Another
expression for this alignment is the use of imagination in
creative projects.
Wed June 18, 1:30 PM ET - FULL MOON at 28 Sagittarius,
Venus in Gemini opposes Pluto in Sagittarius
This intense Full Moon pits the conscious mind (Sun/Venus) in a
struggle with unconscious soul (Moon/Pluto). It may be a
challenging time when we are forced to make a conscious choice to
give up something familiar in order to enter unknown possibilities
for the future, requiring great trust and awareness. Any stress in
relationships will be highlighted at this time giving you an
opportunity to heal disowned parts of yourself. Eccentric Uranus'
square to this Sun-Moon opposition adds another layer of
uncertainty. Remember flexibility and a willingness to explore
unfamiliar territory can lead to freedom for those able to take
chances and turn chaos into creativity.
Thu June 19 - Mercury in Gemini stations going direct at
13 Gemini
Once again we are grateful when communications get back on track.
Ideas that have been languishing and connections left hanging in
the air are ready to be renewed, but wait just a couple days for
Mercury to get up to speed.
Fri June 20 - Sun in Gemini opposes Pluto in Sagittarius,
Sun enters Cancer (Summer Solstice)
Others may be more aggressive and try to dominate you. Since this
also is true in the greater world, look for a long summer of
jockeying for power, but then that's what we expect during
election season.
Sat June 21 - Mars in Leo opposes Neptune in Aquarius
Are you sure you know what you are doing? It can be easy to get
very confused about your goals and aspirations. In a day or so the
fog will clear.
Thu June 26 - Uranus stations going retrograde at 23
Pisces
While Uranus goes retrograde until November 27, it will
dance back and forth in conjunction with Jupiter producing
innovation and new ideas. It is also an opportunity to recognize
that freedom is something that lives in one's heart and mind.
Letting go of limiting beliefs releases creativity to reshape our
lives. Watch out for sudden events that could turn your world
upside down if you have personal planets at 23 Pisces.
Mon June 30 - Mars in Leo trines Pluto in Sagittarius
There is power to move forward as our individual will (Mars)
harmonizes with the will of our higher self (Pluto). Focused
energy is a great ally in living a conscious life.
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As always, your comments and feedback are welcome
and appreciated.
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Dianne Eppler Adams
(703) 548-4552
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